How To Be A Chick Magnet?

Flirting tips are not going to help you if you can’t attract women to you in the first place. You can approach women easily, but if you’re not attracting them to you, you’re really not going to get very far when you start flirting with them. So what is it that guys who get tons of girls do? Here’s my tips on how to get women to flock to you.

Pay Attention To What Your Body Language Says To Girls

When a girl approaches you or you approach her, she’s going to size you up in about five seconds. She’s going to make a judgement about you based on several things, including the way you look, the way you dress and even how you smell. Your body language plays an important part in attracting women, because this is what will make you seem approachable to her or not. Subconsciously, she’s reading your body language to know if it’s okay to go up and talk to you or not.

Make sure that your body language communicates that you’re a strong, confident man, who is also friendly and fun to hang out with. When you’re flirting with a woman, you want to make a lot of strong, masculine gestures and also make sure that you’re not stooping over – if you have poor posture, you’re not going to look confident at all. Make sure your facial expressions convey a happy, confident and fun to be around personality – if you’re scowling the whole time, no girl is going to want to approach you or carry on a conversation with you.

Have Friends That Are Also Confident And Fun To Be Around

Who your friends are and who is in your social circle really says a lot about you, especially to a woman. When choosing friends, know that your friends really show who you are, so you want to make sure that you and your friends have similar ideals. If you’re hanging around a bunch of bullies or jerks, girls are going to think that you’re a bully or a jerk, even if you’re not. Your friends should be just as nice and friendly to others as you are.

Learn To Love Yourself

Women want to be dating confident men – they don’t want to be dating a wuss. So you want to project an air of self confidence and to do that, you must truly learn to love yourself for who you really are. Know that each person is special and unique (including you) and each person has something they can offer other people that no one else can. Each person is an individual and no two people are exactly alike. Learn to love yourself and be confident in what YOU can offer, because it’s special!

How To Break The Ice

You’ve got the first five seconds down, but now you actually have to talk to her! What do you talk to her about? How can you break the ice without choking up?

Start flirting with her. Engage her in conversation. Start by asking her questions. Don’t just ask questions like, “What do you think about the crazy weather we’ve been having lately?” That’s lame. Ask her intellectual questions about her, things around you or things that matter to her. For example, ask her what she is passionate about. No, not what her hobbies are or what sports she plays. Ask her questions that really make her think, like, “What is it that makes you want to wake up every morning?”

Talk About Your Passions

While you definitely want to break the ice by asking her about her passions first, there’s probably going to be an opening at some point for you to talk about what drives you. Be honest with her and let her know what you truly love and what really makes you tick. Hopefully, you and her share some of the same passions or at least ones that are similar so you can start building some common ground, which is essential when you start dating someone.

However, you’re never going to know if you and a girl would really hit it off unless you’re completely honest about your passions and what you love, even though it makes you more vulnerable to rejection. When it comes to dating, women know that a man is risking rejection each time he is flirting with a girl or asks a woman out. You can really make a difference by revealing yourself to a girl, instead of trying to be the guy you think she wants.

Stay Positive

Girls always remember how they feel when they meet a guy. She may not remember exactly what he looks like or exactly what he said, but if he made her feel great, she’s going to remember him and either be waiting for his call or be dialing his digits herself. If a guy makes her feel amazing, she’s definitely going to want to be dating him.

If you make women feel great when they’re around you, they’re going to remember you and want to hang out with you even more. If you’re a downer while they’re around, or if you’re pessimistic or constantly complaining about things, a woman is going to want to run for the hills at the first chance she gets. Even if you’re nervous, focus on flirting with her and making her laugh. Smile, relax and remember to have fun. Show her a good time and make her feel like she’s the only girl in the room. If you do, it’s pretty much guaranteed that you’ll score a date with her.

You’ve Got To Do More Than Talk

While you may be able to talk a good game, that’s not the only thing you have to do if you want to keep women you want to be dating coming back to you for more. Use body language and gestures to show a woman that you’re really interested in her. For example, you can look in her eyes just a few seconds longer than is comfortable and touch her arm while she’s talking to you or you’re talking to her.

If things are going really well between you and a girl, don’t be afraid to take it a step further. If you and her seem to be really hitting it off, don’t be afraid to take a risk and go in for a kiss. Even if you get rejected 10 times out of 11, all that really mattered was that you got 1 “Yes!”

The Boring Guy

I went on a first date with a guy. He seemed okay online, but I couldn’t get a good feel for him. I assumed he was perhaps shy and awkward–as nerds tended to be. He wasn’t horrible looking, and we had common interests. The Hot Nerd had also just gone on a date, so this motivated me to do the same.This new guy and I met for coffee. I suggested the shop as a convenient place.

I found this guy to be awkward and boring. I mean, even if we have common interests but you can’t talk about it in a way that interests me, you probably just suck. Am I right? The conversation was full of awkward pauses. I used a lot of filler words to prolong it, and I didn’t enjoy myself at all. After a short walk, we called it quits. I was ready to shake his hand and walk away, but he felt like an uncomfortable hug was better. I wondered how long my boobs would have to be smooshed against him–literally. The hug went on for a long time, and it felt weird to hug a guy so close to my own height (he claims 5’4″, but he exaggerated).

Not an hour later, he wanted to know when we’d next hang out. Truthfully, I didn’t see him as much of a friend or a romantic partner. I wanted to let him down easily, but I also accidentally erased his number and lost his messages. After a few days, he messaged again. I took the time to explain that I didn’t feel any chemistry, but he tried to save face by explaining how he was easily entertained and just wanted to hang out.

I haven’t replied to him since. I’ve been busy moving–it went okay!–and hadn’t given it much thought. I suppose I gave him all the consideration that I could have, but I’ve never been in this situation before. At the very least, I wanted to try being friends with the guys I’d dated. He just didn’t cut it.

I suppose the bright side is that I’m a great first date. LOL. People want to see me again, even when I feel like it’s apparent we have no chance at being even friends. I entertain them. It gave me a boost in my confidence. Is that good enough? *wink wink* LOL. :P

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Joy Ride

To pass traffic time on the bus, my boyfriend and I exchanged jokes when he accidentally brushed me in a sensual way. With the touch of his hand, I was immediately turned on. I asked him to work his fingers in me. He started slow, but already I was moaning. When he reached from below, I was so wet and hot because it was the first time we’d done such a thing in public, on a bus! As I was having my second orgasm, the conductor approached us and asked where we were headed. With one hand in my pussy, my boyfriend answered. He removed his other hand to grab his wallet and pay our fare. Noticing that the paper bills were sticky, the conductor left us with a smirk on his face. LOL.

That Other Friends With Benefits

            A friend of mine whom I’ll call Marco (he's actually an ex of one of my friends) invited me to his place to watch a movie with him and his guy friend, who would sleep over at his house. I didn’t have plans that night and decided to go. We drank a few bottles of beer while watching Friends with Benefits on DVD. After the movie, his friend retired and went straight to the bedroom. Marco turned off the lights, leaving only the TV on. He then sat beside me and hugged me. He started kissing my neck, which made me feel hot. I kissed him on the lips down to his neck and slowly unzipped his pants.

          Things got really steamy from there. At one point, I moaned loud that I might have awoken his friend. I even thought I saw him watching us from one corner of the house but I wasn’t really sure if I was just having visions. Still Marco and I went on and tried different positions. After the whole act, we slept together on the couch. When we woke up the next morning, I caught his friend staring at me. I was about to go back to my house when he said, "It’s better to watch Friends with Benefits, LIVE.” My face turned red and LMAO.

Chat TV Leads To Quickie

         I was really bored one night so I decided to check out the TV chat rooms - you know, those shows where they flash message exchanges. A guy posted his number saying he was lonely and needed a new friend. I got curious so I decided to text him. Pretty soon we became close text mates. Finally, the day came when he asked that we meet up and since I was already comfortable with him I said yes. We met in a mall, had dinner. He asked me where I wanted to go next. I said, “Anywhere would do.” He must have taken that as a sign because he then confessed that he was really not lonely, that he just wanted to “play.” Being a naughty girl myself, I said "I know". LOL. Then we went to his pad, ripping each other’s clothes off and exchanging kisses and licks. He was a damn good kisser - sucked my boobs hard and finger-fucked me well, too. I gave him a smashing blow job and he loved it. We’ve been seeing each other regularly for more hot sex since.

Girls Don't Like Surprises

I live alone in a pad. Since there are no folks to please or tell me off, I often let visitors in. Once in a while my classmates would come over to hang out or do our assignments, or my brother would come over and stay for a couple of days. One time, a friend—a lesbian—dropped by to do some schoolwork. My older brother was there, too. So while he was watching TV in the living room, my friend and I stayed in my room. I don’t know but having her in the privacy of my room made me horny. So I stopped what I was doing, slowly took of my top, and slipped my girl friend’s hand under my panties. She was a bit shocked but my moist pussy got the best of her. Her deft fingers digging into my orifice felt so good I was consumed in lust. I felt the imminent burst of orgasm when, suddenly, my brother came through the door. My friend and I were shocked. My brother froze but managed to walk away without a word. As he closed the door behind him, I didn’t feel any shame at all - I just had to guide my lesbian friend’s hand back in again so she could continue finger-fucking me until I reached cloud nine.